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Coping with Mental Illness in the Family

“Growing up in any family can be challenging at times, but there are often special problems and challenges for families in which one or several family members have a mental illness. Members of these families often have to deal with instability or unpredictability. Often there is confusion in family roles, and children or other family members may have to take over many of the adult responsibilities, such as taking care of younger brothers and sisters or managing household duties normally managed by adults. They may even have the responsibility of taking care of the emotional or physical needs of their parents. Children and other family members in these situations do not always receive the care and nurturing they need. They may feel ashamed to talk about their situation with others and consequently may withdraw from relatives or friends who could help them or support them. Often unable to articulate their needs, even to themselves, these individuals frequently feel isolated and alone.

Individuals who cope with chronic and severe mental illness in the family may also experience other difficulties outside of their family-of-origin relationships. These may include:

Relationship difficulties:

  • difficulty in initiating relationships, and experiencing feelings of isolation
  • difficulty in romantic relationships
  • difficulty in maintaining friendships
  • difficulty with trusting self and others
  • difficulty balancing level of intimacy (excessive dependence or excessive avoidance)
  • difficulty balancing taking care of self and taking care of others

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